Identifying sex addiction can be challenging, as sexual behaviour varies widely among individuals. However, common signs and symptoms include:
- Preoccupation with Sexual Thoughts: Persistent sexual thoughts that interfere with daily activities.
- Compulsive Behaviour: Engaging in risky sexual behaviours, despite understanding the potential harm.
- Loss of Control: Repeated unsuccessful attempts to reduce or stop sexual behaviours.
- Neglecting Responsibilities: Ignoring personal, professional, or social responsibilities due to sexual activities.
- Relationship Issues: Strained or broken relationships as a result of sexual behaviour.
- Tolerance and Withdrawal: Increasing the frequency or intensity of sexual behaviour to achieve the same satisfaction and experiencing distress when unable to engage in such behaviour.
Recognising the Warning Signs
Recognising sex addiction in loved ones can be challenging, but here are some signs to look for:
- Secretive Behaviour: Hiding or lying about sexual activities.
- Changes in Routine: Unexplained absences or changes in daily habits.
- Emotional Withdrawal: Increased irritability, anxiety, or depression.
- Financial Issues: Unexplained expenses related to sexual activities.
- Isolation: Spending excessive time alone, often in their room.
- Performance Drop: Declining performance at school or work.
- Preoccupation with Devices: Constant use of computers or mobile devices, even during social events.
- Deception: Lying about time spent online or on other activities.
